It might seem obvious. It might seem tricky. It might seem like everybody else gets what they want, but not you or me. What makes this so?
ASK FOR IT!
Here are easy to implement actions that will help you change confusion into clarity and help you get everything your heart desires:
- Stop expecting people to guess what you want
- Clearly state what you want
- If possible, show them a picture or paint one with your words
- Ask for confirmation of the outcome you are expecting
- Give praise when you get the result you wanted
- Repeat steps 1-5 often
This video I share what started me thinking about what happens when I, and others, make assumptions instead of being clear and confident in sharing the results desired. Keep this in mind when you show up for your next haircut.